May brought us together over some amazing coconut curry and quinoa salad made by Lexi at Chrysanne's house. We read Martyr by Kaveh Akbar and I am going to try to capture the discussion- which was a good one. Lexi led by talking about one of the lines and themes in the book which was about how in relationships there is a feeder and an eater. This is a universal truth that we pondered in our own relationships and in the relationships of Cyrus, his father, mother, friends and lovers.
While it was a difficult read about a main character who seeks a meaningful death after tumultuous experiences with addiction and then recovery, combined with the issues of being an Iranian immigrant. Cyrus's parents sought a better life through their immigration, but were they better off in the end? We felt it was hard to read some of the struggles through the addiction and the sadness of finding Cyrus's mother. Finally, the struggles of navigating sexuality and finding meaning were painful to read.
This novel comes at a crucial time when we are at war as a country with Iran and our President has just announced that 'an entire civilization will be destroyed. ' This novel is centered around an event in 1988 when Iranian Flight 655 is shot down by the US- 290 people were killed, including 69 children. This event in the novel results in the believed death of Cyrus's mother, the move to the United States and his father's under employment on a chicken farm in Indiana. The parallels to current day, senseless bombings of a primary school are uncanny and the notion that a civilization that is so similiar to our own is being threatened to be destroyed. We felt sad, frustrated and unsettled.
Next month, we are reading The Island of Missing Trees by Elif Shafak. We are meeting at Cindy's at 5:30 on 6/29/2026. Don will join us remotely. Cindy will send a link.











